Don't listen to those front engined mad men! Whoever heard of such a preposterous idea as to put an engine in the front- I mean where are you legs meant to go?!
...are you sure you want to go down the boxster route? They are fantastic cars no denying it, I had a Cayman for a while and loved it. BUT I found if you are going down the modern pork route, and you have £30K to play with I think a 911 is the answer. They have a top down option too, and I think would always feel more special than a 987.
But if it is a boxster you want than go for it! Gen 2 all the way with PDK and sports exhaust. Other options just go with whatever you fancy. Colour wise, my opinion, you can't beat silver.
At least try a PDK before saying no, I always thought I was manual through and through before I got my current PDK machine.